By Godwin Otang
In society, stereotypes often portray boys as enduring hardships without complaint, akin to the expectations placed on girls. Despite facing numerous challenges such as mental health issues and emotional distress, boys are frequently told to “be a man” and suppress their emotions.
Recognizing the struggles experienced by boys, May 16th is observed annually as the International Day of the Boy Child. On Monday, May 16th, 2024, the Lassian Foundation celebrated this important day at Government Technical College Mayne Avenue, Calabar South.
Founder Edidiong Ebigwai emphasized the significance of the day in promoting gender equality and ensuring that boys receive equitable support and opportunities. According to Samuel Okon Nyong, boys often shoulder responsibilities that are as demanding, if not more so, than those faced by girls. He called for scholarships and job opportunities to prevent boys from engaging in negative behaviors.
Ezikiel Asuquo James highlighted the challenges faced by boys in providing for their families and earning a living. Advocates proposed empowering boys with skills in various fields such as fashion, ICT, and trade to improve their daily lives.
Stakeholders expressed satisfaction at the recognition given to the male gender, acknowledging that both genders complement each other. Mr. Dumbari Life Zabbey conducted an interactive coaching session with teenagers, emphasizing the importance of boys learning to express themselves and develop leadership qualities.
Advocates stressed the need for society to create a safe environment for boys to voice their concerns and take on responsibilities. They urged society to move away from rigid gender norms and allow boys the freedom to express themselves fully.
